TOPIC 3: ANGER DEFINED

Anger is known as a disorder, but more properly known as Intermittent Explosive Disorder (IED) is a psychological condition characterized by sporadic episodes of aggression, violence, and destructive behavior. People who suffer from anger disorder are unable to control themselves, exploding with rage in a way which is often out of proportion to the event which triggered the anger. Like many psychological disorders, IED can be treated with help from a psychological professional, but first it needs to be identified as a problem and diagnosed. As you know some people can't afford to get help and of course most don't want to admit that they have a problem. So, how do we help them?
Three key things distinguish anger disorder from other types of mood disorders which involve anger, such as bipolar disorder. The first is the presence of major property damage or serious harm as a result of one or more explosive episodes. The second is the characteristic of responses which are out of proportion, and the third is a lack of another explanation for the behavior, such as the use of mood-altering medication or an existing mood disorder. People may also experience feelings of fatigue, confusion, or distress after their explosive episodes, often compounded by guilt over their actions.
An, well i can say everyone has this disorder to some degree. Most people seem to suppress their anger and while others they tend to act out their anger. This usually leads to someone getting hurt or objects being thrown and jail time.

HERE ARE SOME WEB-SITES TO VISIT:
thehotline.org
ncadv.org
futureswithoutviolence.org 
womensaid.org
dvcs.org 

Scripture For Today

Enter with This TODAY’S SCRIPTURE “Enter into His gates with thanksgiving, and into His courts with praise. Be thankful to Him, and bless His name.” (Psalm 100:4, NKJV)

Topic 2: SHALL I FEAR MY AGGRESSOR

I contemplated over and over in my head about my story. I'm not even going to lie guys i didn't turn the guy in who rape me the first i was raped. The reason being i was terrified of  this man getting off and finding me an possibly killing me. So, the second time I was terrified and i wasn't going to turn him in but i had a voice of reasoning on my side and convinced  me it was the right thing to do. Don't get me wrong i knew it was the right thing to do but look @ it like this i had a lot to lose this time but I had to think of other people besides myself. Like for instants my daughter i want her to know that the person that she looks up to is strong and has a voice and not willing to let someone defeat her. An, for the other ladies that might come in contact with this predator. I didn't want that to happen to them i was lucky to get a way the next person might not be so lucky. So, had to swallow my pride and give my fear a kick in the you know what and told my story. It was super hard having to sit in front of 20 strangers and relive the ordeal over again. GOD has plan for everything. So, I say this morning look in the mirror and tell your aggressor I NO LONGER FEAR YOU, FOR FEARING YOU IS MY WEAKNESS AND YOU SHALL NEVER, EVER WEAKEN OR SILENCE ME AGAIN. I HAVE VICTORY TODAY AND TOMORROW. WHAT DO YOU HAVE!

ANNOUNCEMENT

I WANT TO APOLOGIZE TO ANYONE WHOM I OFFEND. MY BLOG IS NOT TO GET YOU TELL YOUR STORY PUBLICLY, BUT IF YOU WANT TO AND YOUR COMFORTABLE WITH IT THAT'S FINE I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH THAT. MY BLOG IS HERE TO GET YOUR OPINION, SUGGESTIONS, COMMENTS ABOUT CERTAIN TOPICS. SO HAVE AT IT I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM ALL OF YOU. I AM HERE TO BRING AWARENESS TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, RAPE OR SEXUAL ASSAULT. ALSO TO HELP FIND AWAY FOR WOMEN AND CHILDREN TO GET THROUGH THIS ORDEAL THAT THEY HAVE GONE THROUGH. UNTIL NEXT TIME MY LOVES(:)

Hey, my loves I'm doing some research so i will be up dating you guys no later than tomorrow. I will be discussing some other topics as well. STAY BLESSED(:)

TODAY'S SCRIPTURE

Look Again “ ‘Go and look toward the sea,’ he told his servant. And he went up and looked. ‘There is nothing there,’ he said. Seven times Elijah said, ‘Go back.’ The seventh time the servant reported, ‘A cloud as small as a man’s hand is rising from the sea...” (1 Kings 18:43–44, NIV)

THE MONTHS FOR AWARENESS!

OCTOBER: IS THE MONTH FOR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
APRIL: IS THE MONTH FOR RAPE OR   SEXUAL ASSAULT

SUPPORT, SUPPORT, SUPPORT,SUPPORT, SUPPORT, SUPPORT, SUPPORT, SUPPORT, SUPPORT, SUPPORT ,SUPPORT, SUPPORT, SUPPORT I CAN'T STRESS IT ENOUGH!!!!